Reapply "More aggressive using of cache on engine settings changes" (#4736)

* Reapply "More aggressive using of cache on engine settings changes (#4691)" (#4729)

This reverts commit 3f1f40eeba.

* Add a utility to get all the current values from the settings object

* Use an XState selector to get the latest settings snapshot for WASM

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Co-authored-by: Frank Noirot <frank@kittycad.io>

src/hooks/useSetupEngineManager.ts

@@ -2,7 +2,7 @@ import { useLayoutEffect, useEffect, useRef } from 'react'
 import { engineCommandManager, kclManager } from 'lib/singletons'
 import { deferExecution } from 'lib/utils'
 import { Themes } from 'lib/theme'
-import { makeDefaultPlanes, modifyGrid } from 'lang/wasm'
+import { makeDefaultPlanes } from 'lang/wasm'
 import { useModelingContext } from './useModelingContext'
 import { useNetworkContext } from 'hooks/useNetworkContext'
 import { useAppState, useAppStream } from 'AppState'
@@ -56,9 +56,6 @@ export function useSetupEngineManager(
       makeDefaultPlanes: () => {
         return makeDefaultPlanes(kclManager.engineCommandManager)
       },
-      modifyGrid: (hidden: boolean) => {
-        return modifyGrid(kclManager.engineCommandManager, hidden)
-      },
     })
     hasSetNonZeroDimensions.current = true
   }